Asking Higher Self Questions; How to Become Infectious In 21 Days!

PROMISES RENDERED: The Awakening of the Navigator

Chapter 5:  Asking Higher Self Questions; 

How to Become Infectious In 21 Days!

By Kandayia Ali

I know the one thing that stays on the mind of a person who is in pursuit of total oneness and happiness from within at first, is finding and keeping track of ways to be and stay on a positive platform. This is the most challenging because we tend to go through so many different emotions and events in a day.  It seems impossible to have all that going on without going mad- even temporary insanity will seem like a sane solution.

Most of us who know how it feels to battle with this issue can relate to the complexity of keeping our minds neutral and our tongues peaceful and sound. At first, you’re always one second from telling everyone who steps on a nerve to go to hell- and if they need your assistance with a kick in the ass, you’ll be more than glad to give it.  

Trust me; there is no need for all of that and to prove it- I propose a challenge that can and will work for anyone who is dedicated to making positive changes in their lives. The Higher Self Infestation is what I call it! How does it work? Most of the time we seek resolution and we are told to start with ourselves because ‘we hold the answers to all our and any problems that arise in our lives’. This is true. BUT; What if I told you that sometimes, we don’t ask ourselves the right questions, therefore we receive the craziest if not the totally wrong answers- FROM OURSELVES...  OR the part of ourselves that we channel in to in order to find the best resolution to our disposition.

Weird huh?!?! Yeah, it seems that way- but if you ask yourself ‘why did the chicken cross the road’ you’d get a whole different answer than ‘who let the damn chicken out in the first place?’ One wouldn’t matter so much because a whole new issue would be resolved. I know I sorta’ messed up a perfectly classic joke- but it’s the principle that I hope you get over the slaughter. (Smiles)

OKAY, BECAUSE I LOVE GETTING DOWN, DIRTY AND TO THE POINT—to the challenge. I dare you to do the following:

Step 1 Eliminate ‘Reminiscing’ Over the Wrong Shit:

That’s right- for twenty one days- work on eliminating the NEED to tell others about the crazy shit you have been through. Especially, if it’s negative- and you’re not going to be featured in any history books from sharing it. Grow from it, move on.  Sometimes, that’s all the Universe needs to hear in order to halt your progress. Think of it as you’re way of saying ‘I don’t care about my future because the past bull matters more.’ You can’t move if you’re chained or bound to anything that doesn’t permit freedom to make the necessary movements and changes for self- growth and improvement.

Step 2 Choose To Ask Some Cool Higher Self Channeling Questions:

Point blank, sometimes the question shouldn’t be “Why was I made differently?” Instead, the true question is “What is it that makes me unlike anyone else?”

Below is a list of Higher Self questions that will make you take your thoughts deeper than surface revelations about yourself and the world around you.  Choose as many as you like or make up some of your own once you get the hang of it and repeat them to yourself every morning before you interact with anyone for 21 days. This action will cause you to have conversations of a different nature with yourself if you aren’t having the already; this can also strengthen the bond we all need with ourselves in order to channel into the world of positive self-talk.  See, for a change- talking to yourself isn’t as bad as others make it out to be. You’re not crazy… I promise; unless, you choose to answer to it.

 Your premade questions to ask out loud to yourself would sound like:

1.       Have I introduced my new self today to my old self from yesterday?

2.       Have I evaluated my actions and re-evaluated the outcome I desire to achieve as a result of my actions?

3.       Are my actions intentional? Are they effective? Are they infectious?

4.       Did I surrender to discomfort knowing that it brings about change?

5.       Am I willing to leave my comfort zone in order to establish new ground and happiness in my life?

6.       Am I pursuing my goals with the full knowledge that any goal I choose to reach can be made so?

7.       Have I eliminated sidetracking activities and habits that can hinder progress and success?

8.       Have I been in this situation before- if so, was I successful?  If not, what can I do better to change the outcome this time?

9.       What can I change? Why do I feel a need to?

10.   Have I surrendered to all that cannot be changed?

11.   Is the negative situation REALLY NEGATIVE? Could it be that my perception of and energy towards the situation be truly what’s affecting the outcome?

12.   Am I as great a person as I claim to be? How so?

13.   Am I as great a person as others perceive me to be? How so?

14.   Am I living in the moment?

15.   Am I a faithful contributor to the positivity, progress and prosperity found in others?

16.   Am I a true blessing to others? How so?

17.   Is the voice of GRATITUDE activated and speaking inside of me daily?

18.   Do I speak through my inner energy or outward carnality?

19.   Do I speak life, growth and love into existence?

20.   Is the pursuit for true “wisdom” one of my ultimate goals?

21.   Is the pursuit for true “universal understanding” one of my ultimate goals?

22.   Do I listen to understand? To over-stand? To inner-stand? To accept? To surrender to?

23.   Is my blueprint clear to me and able to be followed by or reproduced by those who wish to follow me?

REMEMBER: Make sure you answer the questions you choose to ask yourself!

 I wish you the best of luck on completing the 21 day challenge. Once you notice the changes in yourself- others will take notice as well and this energy will spread like a holographic epidemic. Give it a shot! Remember, if things aren’t the way you desire them to be in your life, change it; if you can’t change it- change your perception… Surrender to all that you can become!

Get Out of Your Own Way: Putting an End to Self-Sabotaging Behavior

Self-sabotage could be defined as deciding you want something and then making sure it doesn’t happen. Have you ever found yourself close to achieving a goal, only to throw it all away at the last moment? Did you look back later and kick yourself for being so foolish? Most of us have.

Why did you do this? There are several possible explanations, ranging from a need to control the situation to feeling unworthy. But regardless of the cause, the solutions are similar.

Eliminate self-sabotage from your life using these tips:

1.      Observe yourself. Look back at the times you’ve sabotaged yourself or come up short. You probably try to justify the sabotaging behavior in your mind. But, ignore the reasons and just observe the behavior. What conclusion would a casual observer draw from your behavior?

·         Learn to notice the signs of self-sabotage. How and when do you do it? Be objective and recognize your patterns.

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2.      Remember that success isn’t perfect. Sometimes we quit because things aren’t turning out the way we imagined. Setting more reasonable expectations can help ensure that you’re seeing things through to the end. Nothing in life is ever perfect.

·         For instance, maybe you’re in a great relationship, but you imagined there wouldn’t be any disagreements. That isn’t a practical expectation. Another common issue: Making a lot of money is helpful, but it won’t solve all of your challenges.

3.      Consider the other people in your life. Self-sabotaging behavior is selfish. You’re hurting yourself and others.

·         Before you throw in the towel, consider how it will affect those around you. That might provide enough motivation to continue pressing forward.

4.      Be willing to be adventurous. Those who self-sabotage tend to stay in their own little worlds. Seeing a project through to completion means adjusting your outlook. Whether it’s a different job, a new relationship, or something else, your life will be changed to a certain degree. Be brave enough to take that adventure.

·         If you tend to start new projects, but then stop yourself before ever completing them, nothing will ever change and you’ve just wasted time.

5.      Start small. Give yourself the gift of having a few small successes. Then take the time to notice that these successes aren’t perfect, but they still made your life better.

·         Enjoy the victory and imagine how great it would be to accomplish greater successes.

6.      Take some time before making major decisions. Before making a big decision, give yourself some time to think about it. Decisions can be impulsive. A few days can give you the perspective you require to make a wise decision.

Self-sabotage can be frustrating. In the moment, it might seem like you’re making a good choice, but eventually the truth becomes more apparent. It’s easy to beat yourself up over your self-sabotaging behavior, but that can make it even harder for you to succeed the next time.

Be good to yourself and avoid “shooting yourself in the foot” with self-sabotage. You can and will be successful!

Eliminate Your Fear of Rejection and Enhance Your Whole Life

What would your life look like if you were free from worrying about the opinions of others? What if seeking the approval of other people failed to enter your mind? How would it change your life?

Our lives are negatively influenced by the fear of rejection. It holds us back in so many ways and limits our ability to experience the positive aspects of life.

Consider these ideas to banish your fear of rejection:

1. Rejection is largely a self-fulfilling prophecy. When you're constantly worried about rejection, it changes the way you act. You become anxious and defensive. Those actions may cause you to be rejected by others. After all, who wants to spend time with someone who's unpleasant to be around?

* Consider how this fear is affecting your behavior. Are you acting in a way that's causing others to reject you?

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2. Focus on how you want to feel. Most people focus on how they don't want to feel, but they haven't considered how they want to feel. It's hard to accomplish something positive if you're unsure of what you want.

* Choose how you want to feel in a situation that's currently giving you trouble. Take actions that will bring you the feelings you want.

3. Use your imagination in a way that serves you well. We often look ahead to those challenging circumstances and imagine the worst possible outcome. This only adds stress to the situation and we've doomed ourselves to failure. See yourself as successful instead.

* Imagine being confident, relaxed, and carefree. If you do this enough times, it will become habitual. Your imagination has probably been hurting you up to this point. Put it to work in a way that is helpful rather than harmful.

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4. What does rejection really mean? Suppose a child finds a gold nugget lying on the ground. The child doesn't know what it is, so he just tosses it into the dirt. That doesn't mean the nugget is worthless, but just that the person making the judgment is ignorant of its value.

* Many successful people were rejected at one time or another. A theater professor told Harrison Ford that he would never be a successful actor. The University of Evansville put out a scouting report on Larry Bird that stated he would, "Never play Division I basketball." Record companies even rejected the Beatles.

* Sometimes others make poor judgments. Avoid giving the rejecter too much credibility.

5. Be wary of your own opinion. What if all of your beliefs were true? You'd be a billionaire and married to a supermodel. We all have false beliefs. These beliefs are highly limiting and steer you in a negative direction far more often than you realize. Question your beliefs.

Rejection is one of the worst feelings in the world. But remember that you have some influence on whether or not you're rejected by others. It's also important to keep in mind that rejection frequently has more to do with the person doing the rejecting than the one receiving it.

Eliminating the fear of rejection is a worthwhile endeavor. When you are free of this fear, a whole new world will open up to you.